Glossary

Memorandum of Understanding

Definition: A Memorandum of Understanding is the confidential, without-prejudice document that records the proposals reached in family mediation.

Reviewed by Chris Yaffes, FMC-accredited mediator (FMC URN 0961A). Last reviewed 9 July 2026.

The Memorandum of Understanding, often shortened to MOU, sets out what you have proposed on children, finances or property. It is written by the mediator at the end of the process.

The MOU is not legally binding on its own. For financial matters it is usually turned into a consent order so a court can make it enforceable.

Frequently asked questions

Is a Memorandum of Understanding legally binding?

No. It records your proposals but is not binding by itself. A consent order makes a financial agreement enforceable.

Who writes the MOU?

The mediator writes it, summarising what both of you have agreed, so each person can take independent legal advice on it.

Sources

  1. Family Mediation Council, Code of Practice, familymediationcouncil.org.uk. Accessed 9 July 2026.