Child-inclusive mediation
Definition: Child-inclusive mediation is mediation in which a trained mediator meets a child directly so their views can be heard.
Reviewed by Chris Yaffes, FMC-accredited mediator (FMC URN 0961A). Last reviewed 9 July 2026.
It is usually offered to children aged 10 and over, with everyone’s consent. The child chooses what, if anything, is fed back to their parents.
The aim is to give children a voice, not to make them decide. A specially trained child-inclusive mediator carries out the meeting.
Frequently asked questions
What age can a child take part?
Child-inclusive mediation is usually offered from age 10, though it depends on the child and the situation.
Will my child have to choose between us?
No. The purpose is to hear the child’s views, not to ask them to decide. The child controls what is shared.
Sources
- Family Mediation Council, Child-inclusive mediation, familymediationcouncil.org.uk. Accessed 9 July 2026.